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I’m being censored

06 May


At least where our video entry for the upcoming Swede Fest is concerned. The reason? The excessive use of the word “bitch” (mostly used as a verb) in our video entitled “The Blair Bitch Project”. The producers sent me a message stating their discomfort & concern over this last night.

I respect their right and decision to re-edit the piece to conform to the “family friendly” tone they want to set for the festival. However, I have also asked for a disclaimer to be tagged on that reads something like the following at the festival on Saturday.

“The original cut was edited by festival producers for language and content to fit within the rules and format of the Swede Festival.”

I think that’s pretty fair to all parties. But being censored… oohh… I feel like such a bad boy. Though it kinda makes me laugh considering the bitch of a time I had cutting out all the (real) profanities I had to skirt around in the footage.

Now back to prepping for my show which opens tonight. Yikes! BTW… there may be a second post later today.

 
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Don’t they realize that it eventually gets back to my ears?

14 Jan

A friend came to visit the other day. In the course of the conversation blurted that so-and-so was at someplace and was talking smack about me. I began to chuckle. My friend’s face held a quizzical look.

“Why are you laughing?”
“I’m used to it.”
“What was said about you was pretty brutal!”
“Cool.”
“Huh?”

I explained to my friend that I’ve headed several endeavours over time and when one does, one just has to accept the fact that “Bagging on the Boss” is going to occur. It really doesn’t matter if the boss is Donald Trump or Mother Teresa… there’s still going to be a fair amount of backroom bitching going on. It’s an international past-time… probably occurs more often and a lot longer than sex. Come on, we’ve all done it! (Heck, we even do it on our blogs.) It usually begins with phrases like…

“Can you believe what (Insert Boss Name Here)…”
or
“(Insert Boss Name Here) is fucking insane because…”
and my all time favorite…
“Let me tell you the next time (Insert Boss Name Here)… “

Then the diatribe begins. The way I see it… if it is shared with co-workers and they commiserate… it’s a form of organization bonding. If nothing else, it’s venting of frustration. It doesn’t matter how great the outfit you’re working for… frustration is going to occur and the easiest target is whomever is in-charge.

The other thing I’ve learned over time is that it will eventually reach the ears of the one being bitched about. (If it doesn’t… that in-charge person is delusional and totally out of touch… in which case, deserves what is being bitched about them.) That’s been true… at least in my case. There is very little that goes on that I don’t eventually find out about. I also know this goes along with the territory of being the in-charge person. (Mainly because people can’t keep confidences shared with them.) I have never taken it personally and hardly ever hold it against the person… not because I’m particularly thick-skinned.

Simply because I understand:

* I’m not perfect… I have done my fair share of bitching too.
* I never demand something of anyone that I am not willing to demand of myself.
* The person’s assigned task fell short of being accomplished… so, someone needs to be blamed.
* When I am wrong… I almost always cop to it.
* I’m never always right… but I’m very seldom wrong.

Cheers!
 
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